The Pastor’s Studio with Paul Basden

S1E17: Let's Talk About Sex: Understanding God’s Design for Intimacy Pt. 1

Sex is one of the most talked-about topics in our culture—but how does it align with God’s design? In this episode of Uncomfortable Conversations with Christians, host Paul Basden explores what the Bible says about sex, why culture often distorts its purpose, and how Christians can engage in meaningful conversations about this sensitive subject.

 

Join Paul as he unpacks:

• What culture says about sex vs. what God intended
• Why sex is a beautiful, God-given gift (Genesis 1:22)
• The dangers of sexual distortion and its consequences (1 Thessalonians 4:3, Romans 13:13, 1 Corinthians 6:18-20)
• The redemptive power of God’s grace for our sexual brokenness (1 Corinthians 6:9-11)
• How to talk about sex with both truth and compassion

Sex was created for intimacy, not indulgence—for union, not exploitation. If you've ever wondered how to approach this topic with biblical wisdom, grace, and honesty, this episode is for you.

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S1E16: Pro-Life and Pro-Love: Navigating Compassionate Conversations About Abortion

In this deeply important episode of Uncomfortable Conversations for Christians, host Paul Basden explores the sanctity of life and how Christians can advocate for the unborn while showing love and compassion to mothers facing difficult decisions. Through biblical truths, thoughtful discussion, and a special guest interview, this episode challenges believers to embrace a pro-life stance that looks more like pro-love.

 

Join Paul as he examines:

• The biblical foundation for the value of life, including:
  • Matthew 19:13-14 (Jesus welcomes the children)
  • Psalm 139:13 (God knits us together in the womb)
  • Jeremiah 1:5 (God knows us before we are born)
  • Matthew 18:14 (God’s desire that none should perish)
  • Matthew 25:40 (Caring for "the least of these")
• The importance of discussing abortion with grace instead of condemnation
• How to support both the unborn child and the mother with Christlike love
• A conversation with Angie Daniels from Embrace Grace, an organization dedicated to helping women navigate unplanned pregnancies with support and hope

Perfect for those seeking to approach the abortion conversation with wisdom, empathy, and truth, this episode reminds us that being pro-life is not just about advocacy—it’s about embodying the love of Jesus in every interaction.

If you or someone you know is facing an unplanned pregnancy and needs support, Embrace Grace provides love, encouragement, and practical help. Learn more about their mission and how you can get involved:

Visit Embrace Grace: www.embracegrace.com
Follow on Social Media: @embracegraceinc
Find a Support Group Near You: www.embracegrace.com/find-a-group

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S1E15: Race and Christianity: Seeing Beyond Skin Color to Love Like Jesus

In this thought-provoking episode of Uncomfortable Conversations for Christians, host Paul Basden addresses the sensitive and critical topic of race. Through biblical insights, historical context, and a heart for unity, Paul challenges listeners to engage in meaningful conversations about race with compassion, humility, and a commitment to seeing others as God does.

Join Paul as he explores:

• The origins of race-based prejudice and its devastating impact
• Biblical truths that reveal God’s love for all people, regardless of race
• Understanding concepts like Black Lives Matter, Critical Race Theory, and "woke" culture from a Christian perspective
• Practical ways to listen, learn, and foster unity in a divided world

Perfect for those seeking a deeper understanding of race through the lens of faith, this episode invites listeners to wake up to the realities of injustice while embracing the call to love others as Christ loves us. Let’s learn to reflect God’s heart for humanity and be part of the solution.

Scriptures Referenced: 

• Acts 10:34 
• Matthew 22:39 
• Galatians 3:28 

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S1E14: Rethinking Church: Unity, Hurt, and the Hope of God’s Plan A

In this episode of Uncomfortable Conversations with Christians, host Paul Basden explores the complexities of the church—its purpose, its struggles, and its enduring hope as God’s chosen instrument in the world. Despite its flaws and divisions, the church remains central to God’s plan for redemption and unity.

Join Paul as he examines:

• Why the church is more than a building or a denomination
• The impact of church hurt and how to offer healing and reconciliation
• How to embrace the church as the Body of Christ while acknowledging its imperfections
• A vision of the church as God’s family, called to reflect Christ’s love

Perfect for those wrestling with their relationship with the church, this episode offers encouragement, understanding, and a challenge to see the church through God’s eyes. Discover how to foster unity, humility, and hope within the Body of Christ.

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